Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Book Blog - The Beaded Slippers



The story tells of a girl named Puteh who stayed with her grandma, Mama, and the house servant. They all lived in a house built by Puteh’s grandpa who had passed away before she was born. In this house, there was a room called “Momok Room” which was locked and Puteh was not allowed to enter. The story went on to describe how she discovered the “magical” items surrounding the Peranakan culture in the Momok Room. These items brought her into Mama’s memories of her younger days. Finally, Mama gave her a pair of the beautifully sewn beaded slippers and Puteh dreamed about her Mama’s bridal night and even got to see her Kong Kong (Grandpa) for the first time. Puteh truly believes the beaded slippers were magical.

I like the way the book uses the curiosity of a little girl to discover her family culture. The element of self-discovery and awareness throughout the story, intertwine intimately in the display of items that represented the Peranakan culture (through its illustration). The story narrated the thoughts of the little girl as she explored her own family culture which provides a personal touch to the story. The story continued with the little girl watching her grandma danced in the hallway and she imagined how the hallway used to be filled with music and dance. Puteh seemed to find identification and strength in knowing her Mama used to be so pretty and filled with so much joy while dancing. When Mama realized Puteh had touched her things, she shared about the headdress and slippers were part of her bridal attire when she got married to Kong Kong and she had sewn the beads onto her bridal attire. The story shows an inculcation of cultural values as Puteh was impressed with the sewing on the slippers and she was happy to keep the beaded slippers. Puteh’s keen interest her new discovery continued in her dreams whereby she dreamt about her grandparents’ wedding night and she even got to greet her Kong Kong in her dreams!

This book had beautifully made use of the curiosity of a child to discover her heritage. The self-awareness element in the SEL framework is apparent in this story. Puteh had learnt to identify herself with the values of Peranakan culture and found comfort in seeing her Kong Kong in her dreams which she believed was made possible by her magical beaded slippers.
Similarly, the book could lead on a sharing session about children’s different cultural values and practices. Children could share about a physical item about their own race/culture e.g. ethnic costumes and practices. The sharing session allows children to understand and know more about one another and thus is socially aware of the diversity and develops respect for one another.



Tuesday, August 07, 2012

P1 Registration for Ian Won

I have always been a person that avoids riding the most current trend of the society. When people adore windows office, I adore open office (yes, I was one of those who celebrated when MINDEF decided to use the free software, but alas, the updates were not managed well..). When people adore iMac, I adore DELL/Alienware. When people adore iPhone, I adore Samsung. Similarly, for my children, they don't go to Lorna Whiston, Julia Gabriel, Learning Lab etc. But I must admit they have all gone for Kindemusik, Growing up Gifted and most recently my eldest son had enrolled into abacus (another good option is number bonding by iBrainMaths). And yes, I have never thought about my children primary education cause I am sure any decent neighbourhood school will be good enough. Well, the actual reason is that I was against the reason for volunteer work to qualify for Phase 2B. It was two years ago, I was sharing the above with one of my churchmates and she reminded me that I could qualify for Phase 2B with church affliation.OK, it is with God's grace, this is given. I will take that chance. This year I went through Phase 2B - Fairfield Methodist Primary School. I called it my Bonus School. I was all excited as I am glad that my son will be going through a God-centric school environment. This is the only reason why I think the school is good (I was not even bother about the academics performance, and the CCA that the school offers). Of course, this school turns out to be very reputable and is also rich in history. Perfect for a non-demanding mother like me. Well, this year they did not even conduct balloting for parents staying more than >2km away. Phase 2C for Keming Primary School has always been my first choice. Reason is I have heard of it and we are within 2km. Sounds silly, but really, the power of word by mouth can not be underestimated. Well with all my luck, this year seems to be the first time Keming is conducting balloting for within 2km. I was late but early enough to hear that my Son's number is not called,Yes, we did not get into Keming Primary School. The only consolation I had is not to have sat through the whole balloting process of calling names, one by one. I was initially overwhelmed with much controlled sadness but it dawned on me that I just need to hold close to my heart what I have always believed in, nurturing starts from Home, school is not everything. And really what is so bad about my 2nd choice? Lianhua Primary School, one of the two schools that I have attended for its Open House. The reason being I want to see my last choice school, how are the children as compared to a more reputable school that I have been to? In that short 1.5 hours, the distinct difference I had observed is that in Lianhua you can feel the mutual respect and the close relationship that teachers and students have. They are all polite, friendly and approachable. They take intiative to interact with parents like me, and is able to hold a decent conversation with me. In fact, I was very much "bought in" by their hearty talk about their displayed works. In that reputable school, the student was calm and cold. But I am curious to what she was going to say about her display, I only managed to ask one question " can you share what's on your display", afterwhich..she continued with purposefully and carefully memorised description of her works. She holds no expression of interest but professionally described the works in front of her. She ended with a full stop to her answer and I ask no further. It all sounds too robotic for my comfort but she seems an intelligent girl to me, happy for her. I like the kindred spirit of the students seen and felt in Lianhua during their Open House. I will enroll my son into Lianhua and do my best to partner the school in nurturing my son's well being. School's Motto: Loyalty and Honesty School's Values:Self-discipline, motivation, adaptability, responsibility, teamwork, EMPATHY and resilience Important values to adhere to in this new Singapore!

Monday, November 22, 2010

God is Gracious III !

Just to give some kind of fairness to Joan on my blog. This is her pictures for now!

Tuesday, March 03, 2009

lovely kids


On this cool Tuesday afternoon, both my lovely children are sleeping....son on my bed and daughter in her playpen. I have learnt not too be too particular about quality time with my toddler son... Seems like it is not possible with another newborn to look after.

Monday, December 15, 2008

14-16 Nov 08 - Sentosa Weekend

We had a family gathering at Sentosa. Booked a chalet with Costa Sands for the weekend. On the first night, we watched the "Songs of the Sea". The second day, Ian got to swim in the sea and played with the sand. He also enjoyed the water fountains in front of the food court! On the second night, we had a family barbecue and all ended well... On the last day, the time was spent at the chalet swimming pool with Ian attempting to jump right into the pool...

Sunday, December 14, 2008

13 Nov 08 - "This Old Man"


Ian enjoying his version of "This old man"......

8 Nov 08 - Uncle Bernard's Birthday & Karaoke Session


I am still pretty amused with this mahjong cake that Tracy Won had ordered for his Dad birthday. Ian enjoys the jelly mahjong tiles ... ...and yes that night, somebody had such tilesfor his game...

Ian also enjoyed a karaoke session with his dad ..

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Wednesday, September 03, 2008

My personal favourite!

Playing my drum!

From Happy 2nd Birthday Ian!

Happy 2nd Birthday!



How time flies! Ian is already 2 years old. We had a great gathering with all the aunties and uncles, grandparents as well as neighbours. Ian recieved many many gifts and big ang baos! His presents include a magical drawing board, a studying table, bags and clothings...there's also a wonderful drum set..
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Friday, February 29, 2008

Ian's 2nd CNY

Here's more pic of Ian during CNY08! Very naughty and cute hehe

Busy At Work

Quite a number of people had told me that I looked more haggard recently. Shipboard life is definitely hectic coupled with the my desire to fulfill my duties as a mother, I wonder how much effort I can put in. Nevertheless my work commitment will still come in priorities...guess this is what's so unique about signing on.
Ian is very cute..maybe it is a biased view but Ian never fails to put a smile on my face each time I see him. Although he had started attracting attention by hitting others, he also listens to you and do the right things..Here's a pic of him..an angel!:P

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Together Again!


Time flies. Kok Sung is coming home this Sat for a 3 weeks term break. Once again, he has done well for his course. Ian is a big boy now. He climbs onto chairs, cushion chairs at our house's cozy corner, open cupboards and bring all the barang barang out. He had also started opening our cupboards without handles and is scary when he started to open the medicine drawer. Nevethless he's really cute and i couldn't help but love him more each day. I am looking forward to Kok Sung's homecomeing so that Ian's free time could be spent more meaningful like studying..hahahaha cause I did nothing but play with him!

Saturday, October 06, 2007

We have a "War"


I did not have enough sleep last night, thanks to Ian who simply refused to drink his milk before he sleeps. I have to wake up in the middle of the night (including the hours that I have taken till 2am to get him to drink his milk) just to try and feed him! He relented at 330am and sleep throughout till 7am. Thank God that the first feed in the morning went well.

After bringing him to the market to buy some groceries for his lunch, I feed him his milk as usual. Another 2 hours of fight and this time he won, and I failed to feed him and wasted 2 bottles of milk. I am really tired after all these. Not forgetting, I was busy with preparing his meals, bringing him to the marke, bathing him and doing some housework. The only consolation that I had is that he ate half of bowl of porridge just before making his protests...he was too tired to continue with his meal..he took his morning nap.

While he napped, I have some time cleaning the house and wash my clothes (washing machine of course!). Now the house is a least ("home shape") and presentable. Enjoying my coffee now as he sleeps, I am really sorry I lost my temper at Ian, hopefully he doesn't pick up my temper... it is already 1pm now, looking back at the morning, most probably this is part of motherhood. Still love my son dearly.

Tuesday, September 04, 2007

Awaiting Dec 07

Kok Sung had gone back for his studies. I do miss him alot but looking at Ian, I think Ian may just need Kok Sung as much too. Tonite is the first night that Ian sleeps without Papa by his side. Although I will be more comfortable having Ian only on the bed, I will also miss those times whereby Kok Sung & I "fight" to share our blanket. Nevertheless, have to get use to Kok Sung's absence very soon. Shipboard life is rather hectic, I barely spend time with Ian, weekends are so precious to me. Hopefully the ship's officers would not mind if I don't take any of the weekends.....May it be God's will.

Saturday, August 11, 2007

Honey Moon is going to be over soon


Time flies. Kok Sung had been back for almost 4 months. In another 3 weeks, he will be packing his bag and leave for states to study again. Fortunately for Ian, he was able to stay for Ian's first birthday! It was also a time for family gathering. The sylvester cake cost us S$114 with the catering at around S$270. So glad Kok Sung had been back. I just wish we have more time together......